pdt:
After a couple of pretty disastrous long term relationships, I'm making a point of not dating "normies" any more. I'm seeing an actual feeder now and I gotta tell you guys
It's so much better being able to openly discuss your weird fat-related fantasies with a partner who is into it. There's no stress about getting judged or whatever. It's nice.
I was in a past relationship myself with somebody who liked fat I did, it ended up crumbling in the end but not because of the fetish, now I'm here living life and finding my way in it, just figuring out crap but that's besides the point. I find it a lot easier to just be with somebody who shares your interests in that department, there's feeling the need to hide it, being scared to tell, none of that, you can open and honest about it and feel you can be so from the get go. If somebody likes someone who may or may not have the fetish or any fascination with it or anything, but wanna be with them, then that person better open minded as hell and willing to compromise, experiment, whatever.